Best Sex Toys for Men and Women To Enjoy as a Couple or Solo

Buy from Fun Factory, $169

Most people know about that “other” wand, which definitely has a reputation that proceeds it. And if you’ve experienced it, you know it can be a lot … and heavy…and loud! What makes the VIM Wand the best sex toy for men and women is that it gives that magical wand pleasure in a far more efficient, modern way.

The first weighted rumble wand, the weight and vibration of the device is in the head. This not only means it’s gentler on the hand and wrist but that it’s ideal for those with joint issues in this area. The neck is slightly flexible — another aspect of the design your body is going to appreciate — and the head is ribbed to hold your favorite lubricant. (In our opinion, everything is better with lube.)

If you’re ultra sensitive, you may have found other wands too intense for you or your partner. However, the VIM Wand may make you a convert with its customizable vibrations and full range of speed. To warm up, go with the lower settings to stimulate nerve endings without overpowering them. They’re great to work with in foreplay sessions or if you need help getting fully aroused. The plus and minus signs on the wand allow for vibrations to be adjusted, regardless of what speed you’re at, so you really can design the pleasure experience you’re after.

The VIM Wand is wireless, made with body safe materials and water-resistant — great for shower play! Also, it’s 50 percent quieter than other wands, so you can still enjoy some private time, even when your home is chaotic.

Buy from Lovehoney, $130

Vibrators are not the only sex toys for men and women to enjoy together or alone. Many enjoy the sensation of grinding and this sex pillow is far more hygienic than other high traffic surfaces, such as a mattress. The cover is washable, plus it has a place to hold your sex toy of choice. The pillow’s foam core is firm and can hold up to two people comfortably, and the soft, removable cover is latex-free.

Promising review: “The Humphrey toy mount pillow does exactly what I wanted. It holds toys in place, freeing up hands for other activities, and raises the height of the toy, making things easier for me.”

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Buy from Fun Factory, $140

Planning a getaway for two? Don’t forget to pack the Volta. Besides having a travel friendly lock — there’s nothing less sexy than being stopped at customs — the external vibrator has fluttering tips that are absolutely titillating for both men and women. Made for the major erogenous zones, there are six speeds and six patterns to play with, so don’t be afraid to get adventurous. If you’re curious about ways to enjoy, check out all the helpful tips on Fun Factory’s product page. It will definitely get your creative juices flowing!

Promising review: “As we grew older, my husband and I found our sex lives greatly diminished from falling testosterone, estrogen [and] the way some medications affect libido. Enter sex toys. OMG…what a game changer. I ordered the Volta along with another toy because it could be used by both my husband and me, solo and together. Best.Orgasms.Ever. It also introduced play into our sex lives. We’re still discovering the many ways to use this extraordinary toy. Not only has the Volta brought pleasure back into our sex lives, it’s brought us closer together again. Can’t recommend highly enough!”

Buy from Amazon, $67

If you’re not comfortable bringing a large sex toy into the bedroom, maybe this unassuming vibrator will set the mood. It has seven pulsation patterns, plus five vibration settings to go between. It’s also waterproof! Use alone for some sexy private time or use with a partner. It’s perfect for clitoral stimulation, as well as to target the perineum — whatever your pleasure.

Promising review: “This is the first toy I have purchased and it really does the job. It’s simple and sleek in design, easy to clean and handle.”

Buy from Lovehoney, $209

Mismatched schedules keeping you and your love apart? The We-Vibe Chorus with the free We-Vibe app allows your partner to control the vibration from anywhere in the world, no matter how far apart you are. Can it be used alone? Absolutely, but the real fun happens when another plays, so don’t be shy about gifting to your sweetie. If anything this tech feels the opposite of sexy, rest assured that the super-helpful manual and website make quick start a breeze.

Promising review: “Perfect toy to spice things up and feels amazing for both of us.”

Buy from Dame, $99

It’s easy to see why the Pom vibrator is one of Dame’s bestsellers. Along with fitting in the palm of your hand, it’s super soft and flexible, conforming to your body’s unique shape. Use the intuitive controls to adjust the intensity and pattern settings to your liking (or have your partner do it!), and be prepared to bliss out. Another feature we love about the Pom is that it’s on the quieter side, so you can enjoy the moment without distraction.

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Promising review: “Amazing, soooo velvety, flexible, and tiny. I haven’t had a new toy in probably 10 years (I know sad). This was a perfect . Great orgasm during sex! Perfect for together and on your own!”