Signs It’s Time To Few a New Doctor

Your doctor-patient relationship is hugely important. But what happens when that relationship no longer works? “There is no shame in advocating for your healthcare needs,” says Sarah Sams, MD, director of the board of the American Academy of Family Physicians. “Finding the right physician is a personal decision, and it’s okay to seek a better fit.” Here, we reveal a few red flags that mean it’s time to look for a new doctor.

Warning signs you need a new doctor

Worried you’re not getting the kind of quality care you deserve? Whether you feel your treatment options are lacking or your health issues aren’t being taken seriously, there are a few warning signs that can signal it’s worth seeking out a new doctor.

Your needs have changed

As we age, our healthcare needs shift. And while your fertility-focused ob-gyn may have been the right doctor when you were having kids, they might not be a fit as you get older and develop other health conditions. “As your life evolves, your healthcare needs may as well,” Dr. Sams says. “If you have specific health goals, it’s worth ensuring your physician’s expertise and approach align with your priorities.”

You feel dismissed

You’re concerned the backache that won’t go away might be serious, but your doctor shrugs it off as a symptom of aging. “If your concerns are dismissed or not fully addressed, it may be time to consider a new physician,” Dr. Sams says. “A strong doctor-patient relationship includes open dialogue—your physician should take your concerns seriously, while also helping you understand what truly requires attention and what may not. Feeling respected and heard is essential to good care.” (Learn more about how to avoid medical gaslighting.)

You don’t like their approach

Maybe your doctor immediately writes a prescription for every ailment or they’re too hesitant to offer meds—differing approaches to treatment plans can be a barrier to receiving the medical care you deserve. “If your doctor is making recommendations that don’t align with your lifestyle or preferred treatment method, ask their reasoning for one treatment course over another,” Dr. Sams says. If those answers don’t fit with your goals, it may be time to look for a new doctor.

You feel rushed

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We know doctors are busy, but if your physician seems to have one foot out the door to their next patient or struggles with poor communication, they’re likely not providing the level of care you deserve. You want a doctor who takes the time to listen, consider your concerns and answer your questions. “I recommend preparing for your appointments with a list of your questions and top concerns to guide the visit and make the most of your time,” Dr. Sams says. “If these conversations still don’t satisfy your medical needs,” then it is probably time to shop around.

What to ask your new doctor

Your first visit with a medical professional should feel like a two-way interview. “Be open about your health history, goals and expectations,” Dr. Sams says. “If you have chronic conditions such as diabetes or heart disease, ask about the physician’s experience managing them. If you have specific goals, discuss them.” And don’t forget to bring your medical records and any recent test results with you, too, so they can get the full picture of your health concerns.

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This content is not a substitute for professional medical advice or diagnosis. Always consult your physician before pursuing any treatment plan.

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