30 Best Sex Toys to Spice Up Your Love Life (Or Alone Time!)

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Female sex toys come in all shapes and sizes and vibration levels, and can provide a fun, new way to spice up your couple (or alone!) time . That’s why we’ve rounded tup he best sex toys for women that you can shop discreetly, reviewed by real women just like you.

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While vibrators and other adult toys might not make for polite dinner conversation, there’s no reason to be embarrassed or ashamed of using them. Our bodies are made to feel pleasure, and besides feeling great, orgasms have an array of health benefits! Apart from their cosmetic bonuses (they’re great for your skin), they’ve been shown to boost immunity. They also make for a great workout, increasing your heart rate and exercising the whole body, including the pelvic floor.

So whether you’re new to sex toys and not sure where to start, or already have a drawerful and want to try something new, we’ve got you covered. Below are 30 of the best, most effective gadgets to give you guaranteed orgasms, plus one great lubricant for vaginal dryness that works with them all. (And not to worry — these products will be shipped to you in discreet packaging, so your postal worker and neighbors will be none the wiser.) Keep scrolling for FIRST for Women’s picks for the best sex toys for women.

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What are the best sex toys for women?

Here are our top picks for sex toys for women (but keep scrolling for reviews and several more of our faves!):

Lelo Smart Wand 2

best wand vibrator
best sex toys for women

Buy at Lelo, $199.99

Why we like it:

  • Wide range of vibrating intensities
  • Made with extra soft silicone
  • Long-lasting charge

This wand vibrator can be used solo or with your partner — and even on your partner! Made with 100 percent waterproof, butter-soft silicone, it can be used anywhere on your body (even sore muscles!). With a wide range of vibrating settings, you can have a completely different explosive experience every time you pull it out of the drawer.

Promising review: “Bought this for us to enjoy together and my wife loves it! We have used it four times and she has had internal orgasms every time in less than 15 minutes. Internal orgasms are very rare for her. The last time we put it between us during intercourse and came together.

Lelo Gigi 2

best sex toy for beginners
Lelo Gigi 2

Buy at Lelo, $139.99

Why we like it:

  • 8 pleasure settings
  • Sculpted for ultimate g-spot stimulation
  • Whisper quiet

If you’re new to the world of adult toys, this global best-seller is the perfect sex toy for beginners. Its classic shape hits all the right spots, and the multiple settings allow you to gently ease into the vibrations until you find the setting that’s right for you.

Promising review: “I bought GG a month ago and it was really out of my expectation. The design is great, very light and delicate. To be honest, I had never found my G point before I got it. But this helped me find that and I have never had this pleasure before. Would recommend.”

Paloqueth G-Spot Finger Vibrator

best finger vibrator

Buy at Amazon, $24.69

Why we like it:

  • Comes with a wireless remote control
  • Curved and textured tip
  • 9 vibration modes

This finger vibrator is small but packs a punch! Its soft silicone strap fits all sizes of fingers, and it washes easily when you’re finished. The nine vibration modes allow you to be as gentle or powerful as you wish, and the ribbed ticklers will send you right over the edge.

Promising review: “An excellent way to use toys, but truly remain involved. The Finger slot is ergonomic and the ring attached secures the finger in place. I love the silicone material and the ridges on the surface of the section used for insertion. At first i was a bit confused on why you would need a remote, but once the product is on and in use, you quickly realize why. Neat that they thought ahead about wanting to change pressures and patterns during play. Fun idea, good product.”

Lelo Ora 3

best oral sex stimulator for women

Buy at Lelo, $169.99

Why we like it:

  • Rotating tongue simulator
  • Faster and firmer movements than other models
  • Wide range of vibration intensities

This clever sex toy simulates oral sex for women with a tongue-like nub that rotates and vibrates for your ultimate pleasure. The PreMotion Technology provides different variations of strength and speed to gradually but blissfully bring you to climax.

Promising review: “I really enjoy the climax I get from using this toy — it always hits the spot which I can’t say for all toys. Just thinking about it makes me want to bust it out and have some fun!”

Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls

best ben wa kegel balls

Buy at Lovehoney, $29.99

Why we like it:

  • Smooth, chrome-plated with a carbon steel core
  • Easy-to-wear and remove
  • Combined weight of 221g

Also known as Ben Wa balls, this kegel ball set is just like the one Anastasia Steel used in Fifty Shades of Grey (“I flush from the constant movement of the silver balls…”). To use, simply coat them in lubricant then slide them in. They’re weighted to strengthen your pelvic walls and increase the intensity of future orgasms, but they’ll also turn you on in a way that will make you feel like you’re at a dinner party with Christian Grey.

Promising review: “They went right in without a problem. I suggest use lots of lube, especially your first time. I used them do things around the house, or go out with them [inside of] me. They feel very good inside, and I started to feel a sensation through my whole body. I started feel moist and hot. I was alone and I used a cli sucker too and my body started to shake and oh what a big O. I want to try them with my husband.”

Lelo Sila

best clitoral vibrator

Buy at Lelo, $169.99

Why we like it:

  • Award-winning sex toy
  • Large mouth for indirect contact of sensitive areas
  • Gentle vibrations

This brand new clitoral vibrator from Lelo is already winning awards for its innovative design. The wide mouth allows you to gently tease your most sensitive areas without over-stimulation. With eight, ultra-quiet vibration settings and extra soft silicone, this will be your new favorite sex toy. And because it’s waterproof, you can take it in the bath or shower for a new adventure.

Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow

best sex pillow

Buy at Lovehoney, $159.99

Why we like it:

  • Easily mounts any type of sex toy
  • Washable microfiber cover
  • Cushion supports two bodies

If you love your sex toys but are looking for some hands-free play, this sex pillow will be your new best friend. Its pre-made toy holder is suitable can steady toys of all shapes and sizes, even those without a flared base. The pillow’s foam core is firm and can hold up to two people comfortably, and the soft, removable cover is machine washable for easy cleanup.

Promising review: “For my 40th birthday I treated myself to the Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow… I have quite a few toys that I enjoy using on a regular basis, but sometimes it’s difficult to get the positioning right… He allows you to enjoy solo fun with your toys in a whole range of new positions. Yes for a pillow he is expensive, but for the pleasure I have already had with him, he is worth every penny.”

Je Joue MiMi Vibrator

best waterproof sex toy for the bath

Buy at Good Vibrations, $99.99

Why we like it:

  • 5 vibration settings and 7 pulsation patterns
  • Palm-sized and waterproof
  • Quiet motor

Do you love a luxurious soak in the tub? Take this soft little purple gadget with you next time: it’s smaller than a bar of soap and fully waterproof — yes, safe to submerge! — so you can spice up your next bath. Five vibration settings and seven pulsation patterns range from slow and sensuous, to fast and strong. Fun to use with a partner or alone, it runs for two hours on a single charge and is sleek, silky, and super sexy. 

Promising review: A superior vibrator, one million stars! Small in size, soft on the skin, quiet motor, very rumbly. I only use the two lowest setting, it’s that powerful! You get that nice ‘thud’ instead of being buzzy and numbing out your lady parts. This is honestly one of the best vibrator I’ve ever bought. I highly recommend!”

Lelo Soraya 2

Best vibrator for women

Buy at Lelo, $186.15 (was $219)

Why we like it:

  • Most popular with our readers
  • 12 pleasure settings
  • Whisper quiet and discreet

If you’ve never tried a sex toy before, you might feel a little daunted by some of the more intimidating-looking options out there. The Lelo Soraya 2, however, is here to reassure you (and nix any subconscious stigmas you might be carrying around). Smooth, flexible, and easy to use, it’s got 12 pleasure settings and dual stimulation that combines power and precision, making it one of the most luxurious vibrators you’ll find. It also comes with a satin pouch for discreet storage, free discreet shipping, and a 1-year warranty. Perfect for partner play as well as solo pleasure, this is a great way to open the door to a whole new world of possibilities.

Promising review: “This is my first vibrator and it’s honestly AMAZING! The fact that this is dual action, with 12 settings (12 adjustable settings!), is silent, and can be used in water, is absolutely perfect. I would highly recommend!”

Moxie By We-Vibe Mini Vibrator

Best sex toy for couples 

Buy at Good Vibrations, $129

Why we like it:

  • Remote controller
  • Waterproof with underwear clip
  • App-Controlled

Who said sex toys are only for for solo play? Although you can certainly use it on your own, Moxie’s wearable contoured mini vibrator is a top pick for couples, as it can be operated via a remote control or even an app on your phone, from up to 30 feet away. It conveniently clips to your underwear, so you can make sure it’s positioned for maximum pleasure. Or if you want to get creative, you can move it to other areas of your body — imagine the possibilities!

Promising review: “I love the contoured shape of this cutie! It fits close to the body keeping contact with the fun parts without feeling like it’s in the way, especially if you’re sitting down while wearing it (for my anatomy at least). The magnets keep the toy in place really well, and work better in lingerie than the classic little underwear pocket underwear vibe. The app plus the ease of clipping it onto any style of underwear/body suits makes it a great item if you want to include someone in your play time that isn’t in the same room as you. It’s super rumbly – as you would expect from we-vibe. Great product!.”

Happy Rabbit Vibrator

best rabbit vibrator

Buy at Lovehoney, $129.99

Why we like it:

  • Thrusting feature simulates the real thing
  • Velvety-soft, skin-safe silicone
  • Whisper-quiet vibrations

The rabbit vibrator is one of the most famous sex toys for women. But not all rabbits are created equal. Unlike most, the Happy Rabbit vibrator offers a thrusting function that simulates real sex. Add that with its whisper quiet vibrations, and you have the best rabbit vibrator in the adult toy aisle.

Promising review: “As expected with Lovehoney, and Happy Rabbit in particular, this vibrator feels very good quality. The silicone has a soft velvety feel and the buttons are easy to use. The thrusting element was what intrigued me about this vibrator, and although a little noisy, they definitely added a new element to the standard rabbit vibe! It’s a pretty substantial size and weight, and the thrusting makes it perfect if you’re looking for G-spot stimulation as well as clitoral. Overall, if you’re looking for a thrusting vibrator – happy rabbit will not disappoint.”

Lelo Soraya Wave

Best luxury vibrator

Buy at Lelo, $249

Why we like it:

  • Softer, smoother and more flexible than ever
  • 8 pleasure settings
  • Whisper quiet and discreet

This rabbit-style massager is the top-of-the-line, best-of-the-best and promises a full-body experience that will leave you deeply satisfied and shivering with pleasure. With both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, a pulsating tip, and Lelo’s patented “Wave Motion” technology, this might be the only toy you ever need. It’s on the pricier side compared to other sex toys, but reviewers say it’s worth the splurge.

Promising review: “The power of the toy and its “move here” motion make it a real women-pleaser. Beautiful design combined with quality manufacturing make it a beauty that gives a lot of pleasure.”

Lelo SONA 2 Cruise

Best sex toy for solo play 

Buy at Lelo, $84.15 (was $99)

Why we like it:

  • Global bestseller
  • 12 pleasure settings
  • Extra soft silicone

Be prepared to have your mind totally blown by Lelo’s multi-award-winning SONA 2 Cruise. Its unique “SenSonic” technology gives off a series of pleasurable sonic waves before it ever even makes direct contact with your body. Its cruise-control setting provide constant pulsations, which increase when the device is pressed against your body. Better yet, the company offers free discreet shipping, a one-year warranty, and a 10-year quality guarantee, making the SONA 2 a solid investment in your sexual health. 

Promising review: “I mean it’s amazingggg. Does the trick within a couple minutes. I like all the different settings that you can go from and the fact that you can change the intensity of it. No need for a man with Lelo (lol).”

Desire Luxury Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator

best remote control vibrator

Buy at Lovehoney, $89.99

Why we like it:

  • 8 modes of vibration, each with 12 custom speeds of intensity
  • 26 feet remote range
  • Slender shape for easy insertion

This is a fun one! With a remote control that spans 26 feet, you and your partner can get extra creative (and naughty) just about anywhere. Made of silky silicone, it’s whisper quiet, so you can experience its eight vibration modes whenever, wherever.

Promising review: “I bought this product for my partner and let’s say it was fantastic. I loved that I could control it. [It has] so many different settings. We started slow then got to the highest setting and she was coming in less than five minutes. Good for solo play and together. Really nice size and texture. It’s a must-have in the bedroom.”

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