30 Best Sex Toys For Couples Who Want to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

Who said sex toys are only for for solo play? Although you can certainly use it on your own, Moxie’s wearable contoured mini vibrator tops our list of the best sex toys for couples, as it can be operated via a remote control or even an app on your phone, from up to 30 feet away. It conveniently clips to your underwear, so you can make sure it’s positioned for maximum pleasure. Or if you want to get creative, you can move it to other areas of your body — imagine the possibilities!

Happy customer: “First of all, I’m OBSESSED with the aqua color. This toy shipped so quickly and super discretely, which I appreciated. I loved the idea of handing the remote over to my boyfriend and having him control it. Unlike other panty vibes I’ve tried, it was super comfortable and easy to wear (and it didn’t move an inch even when I did!). Overall, I love it.”

The VIM Wand is simply magical! Made with body-safe materials and waterproof, the weighted rumble wand offers a wide range of vibration intensities for you and your partner’s pleasure. There are five different settings, which can be customized, as well as three patterns to go between. The ribbed head carries lube, and the neck is slightly flexible, allowing it to easily move with your own rhythm. The weight of the wand is in the head, so it’s easier on the hand, and the motor is far quieter than you’d expect. Best of all, the device can be used on other areas of the body — not just the obvious places, making it the ideal choice for erotic massages, self exploration, and more.

This wand vibrator can be used solo or with your partner — and even on your partner! Made with 100 percent waterproof, butter-soft silicone, it can be used anywhere on your body (even sore muscles!). With a wide range of vibrating settings, you can have a completely different explosive experience every time you pull it out of the drawer.

Happy customer: “Bought this for us to enjoy together and my wife loves it! We have used it four times and she has had internal orgasms every time in less than 15 minutes. Internal orgasms are very rare for her. The last time we put it between us during intercourse and came together.“

Don’t be fooled by its size — the Eva hands-free vibrator packs a punch! With three vibration settings to choose from, this small device will give you some extra clitoral stimulation without you having to hold it in place. The flexible wings keep it secured snugly and comfortably, so you can just focus on having fun. We also love that it comes in two great colors (pink and green), and that a cute little USB charging dock is included.

Happy customer: “This little thing is fantastic for couples play! I usually need a powerful vibrator to get to the finish line and so it’s rare to go there in normal positions like missionary. This gem is positioned perfectly to stay well and gets added pressure from my partner’s movement. It gives me just the right amount of stimulation and amplifies everything for me!”

If you’re new to the world of adult toys, this global best-seller is the perfect sex toy for beginners. Its classic shape hits all the right spots, and the multiple settings allow you to gently ease into the vibrations until you find the setting that’s right for you.

Happy customer: “I bought the Gigi 2 a month ago and it has exceeded my expectations. The design is great — very light and delicate. To be honest, I had never found my G-spot before I got it. But this helped me find it, and I have never felt such pleasure before. Would recommend.”

This egg vibrator is a fun one! With a remote control that spans 26 feet, you and your partner can get extra creative (and naughty) just about anywhere. Made of silky silicone, it’s whisper quiet, so you can experience its eight vibration modes whenever, wherever.

Happy customer: “I bought this product for my partner and let’s say it was fantastic. I loved that I could control it. [It has] so many different settings. We started slow then got to the highest setting and she was coming in less than five minutes. Good for solo play and together. Really nice size and texture. It’s a must-have in the bedroom.”

This finger vibrator is small but packs a punch! The versatile design allows for pleasure with the tether or without, and the vibrator itself comes with both pointy and squishy sides, so you can mix things up to your liking. Available in navy or jade, this device is as cute as it is fun to use, and the three-speed vibration settings will send you right over the edge.

Happy customer: “I’m amazed by how comfortable and versatile the touch of the Fin is. No more messing around with positions of sex toys and awkward angles that detract from pleasure. The Fin does what I want, just better!”

This clever sex toy simulates oral sex for women with a tongue-like nub that rotates and vibrates for your ultimate pleasure. The PreMotion Technology provides different variations of strength and speed to gradually but blissfully bring you to climax.

Happy customer: “I really enjoy the climax I get from using this toy — it always hits the spot which I can’t say for all toys. Just thinking about it makes me want to bust it out and have some fun!”

This brand new clitoral vibrator from Lelo is already winning awards for its innovative design. The wide mouth allows you to gently tease your most sensitive areas without over-stimulation. With eight, ultra-quiet vibration settings and extra soft silicone, this will be your new favorite sex toy. And because it’s waterproof, you can take it in the bath or shower for a new adventure.

Happy customer: “Just got it and already more intense orgasms than any other product I’ve used over the last 20 years!! It made my legs shake and felt like a real tongue-induced one. It was a big O, holy moly!”

Do you love a luxurious soak in the tub? Take this soft little purple gadget with you next time: it’s smaller than a bar of soap and fully waterproof — yes, safe to submerge! — so you can spice up your next bath. Five vibration settings and seven pulsation patterns range from slow and sensuous, to fast and strong. Fun to use with a partner or alone, it runs for two hours on a single charge and is sleek, silky, and super sexy.

Happy customer: “BEST TOY EVER. My husband and I have a difficult time finding what works for me and this exceeded my expectations … The silicone is crazy soft, and the tip is squishy and just right for anyone. Cute little box, would be perfect as a gift to a friend. Comes charged a little too, who doesn’t want to play with a shiny new toy?“

If you’ve never tried a sex toy before, you might feel a little daunted by some of the more intimidating-looking options out there. The Lelo Soraya 2, however, is here to reassure you (and nix any subconscious stigmas you might be carrying around). Smooth, flexible, and easy to use, it’s got 12 pleasure settings and dual stimulation that combines power and precision, making it one of the most luxurious vibrators you’ll find. It also comes with a satin pouch for discreet storage, free discreet shipping, and a 1-year warranty. Perfect for partner play as well as solo pleasure, this is a great way to open the door to a whole new world of possibilities.

Happy customer: “This is my first vibrator and it’s honestly AMAZING! The fact that this is dual action, with 12 settings (12 adjustable settings!), is silent, and can be used in water, is absolutely perfect. I would highly recommend!”

Not all of the best sex toys for couples vibrate. Also known as Ben Wa balls, this kegel ball set is just like the one Anastasia Steel used in Fifty Shades of Grey (“I flush from the constant movement of the silver balls…”). To use, simply coat them in lubricant then slide them in. They’re weighted to strengthen your pelvic walls and increase the intensity of future orgasms, but they’ll also turn you on in a way that will make you feel like you’re at a dinner party with Christian Grey.

Happy customer: “They went right in without a problem. I suggest use lots of lube, especially your first time. I used them do things around the house, or go out with them [inside of] me. They feel very good inside, and I started to feel a sensation through my whole body. I started feel moist and hot. I was alone and I used a cli sucker too and my body started to shake and oh what a big O. I want to try them with my husband.”

The rabbit vibrator is one of the most famous sex toys for women. But not all rabbits are created equal. Unlike most, the Happy Rabbit vibrator offers a thrusting function that simulates real sex. Add that with its whisper quiet vibrations, and you have the best rabbit vibrator in the adult toy aisle.

Happy customer: “As expected with Lovehoney, and Happy Rabbit in particular, this vibrator feels very good quality. The silicone has a soft velvety feel and the buttons are easy to use. The thrusting element was what intrigued me about this vibrator, and although a little noisy, they definitely added a new element to the standard rabbit vibe! It’s a pretty substantial size and weight, and the thrusting makes it perfect if you’re looking for G-spot stimulation as well as clitoral. Overall, if you’re looking for a thrusting vibrator – happy rabbit will not disappoint.”

It’s easy to see why the Pom vibrator is one of Dame’s best sellers. Its soft, flexible design effortlessly fits into your hand and conforms to your body’s shape and movements for personalized pleasure. Use the intuitive controls to adjust the five intensity and pattern settings to your liking (or have your partner do it!), and be prepared to bliss out. Another feature we love about the Pom is that it’s on the quieter side, so you can enjoy the moment without distraction.

Happy customer: “I love this Pom. The color is so sweet, the texture is silky to the touch, and it works like a dream. I feel like this was designed to perfectly stimulate my body. It’s been fun to use alone and with my partner. The different vibrating patterns are fun, and it’s enjoyable with the constant vibration as well. I’m a big fan. I’m away from home right now, and it packs very nicely and discreetly.”

This rabbit-style massager is the top-of-the-line, best-of-the-best and promises a full-body experience that will leave you deeply satisfied and shivering with pleasure. With both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, a pulsating tip, and Lelo’s patented “Wave Motion” technology, this might be the only toy you ever need. It’s on the pricier side compared to many of the best sex toys for couples, but reviewers say it’s worth the splurge.

Happy customer: “The power of the toy and its “move here” motion make it a real woman-pleaser. Beautiful design combined with quality manufacturing make it a beauty that gives a lot of pleasure.”

Be prepared to have your mind totally blown by Lelo’s multi-award-winning SONA 2 Cruise. Its unique “SenSonic” technology gives off a series of pleasurable sonic waves before it ever even makes direct contact with your body. Its cruise-control setting provide constant pulsations, which increase when the device is pressed against your body. Better yet, the company offers free discreet shipping, a one-year warranty, and a 10-year quality guarantee, making the SONA 2 a solid investment in your sexual health.

Happy customer: “The Sona is a product like no other. I’ve used other clit massagers that left me a little raw. As I’ve had other products from Lelo, I thought I’d try the Sona. It helped me explode quickly, comfortably: so satisfying. It’s quiet, easy to hold (for yourself or a partner), easy to clean. And easy to use again and again! As a middle-aged woman worried about losing my powerful orgasms to menopause, Sona restored my mojo.”

This smooth glass dildo is beaded for deep internal stimulation. Not only is glass hypoallergenic and easy to clean, it can also be heated or cooled to change the sensation. The velvet storage bag makes this classy toy somehow even more high-end.

Happy customer: “I’ve always been wary of glass sex toys. To me glass reminds me of sharpness, and that’s not something you want to worry about on your delicate areas. Eventually I decided to be brave, order this item and try it out. I’m so glad I did. The first time I used it I had one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced using a toy. It was so pleasurable I played with it several times more that week and regularly since then. It is well made, sturdy but smooth. It reacts well to temperature – I have both cooled and warmed it for different sensations. The length of perfect, the curve hits all the right areas and the bumpiness heightens all feelings. Highly recommended toy that everyone should have in their collection.”

If you love your sex toys but are looking for some hands-free play, this sex pillow will be your new best friend. Its pre-made toy holder can steady sex toys all shapes and sizes, even those without a flared base. The pillow’s foam core is firm and can hold up to two people comfortably, and the soft, removable cover is machine washable for easy cleanup.

Happy customer: “For my 40th birthday I treated myself to the Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow… I have quite a few toys that I enjoy using on a regular basis, but sometimes it’s difficult to get the positioning right… He allows you to enjoy solo fun with your toys in a whole range of new positions. Yes for a pillow he is expensive, but for the pleasure I have already had with him, he is worth every penny.”

Vibrators are great, but sometimes you might want to change things up a little. Enter: the Aer suction toy from Dame. Equipped with five intensity levels and pattern modes, this small device simulates the sensation of oral sex, thanks to pulses of air that tickle and tantalize with a unique suction feature. Whether you want to start out soft and slow during foreplay, or go all out to achieve maximum pleasure right away, this versatile toy makes a fun addition to any bedroom.

Happy customer: “I never write reviews for anything and I couldn’t wait to write one for this powerful little thing. She’s so cute, I love the color, she’s so soft, she’s the perfect size for my hand, and so powerful. She has really brought my solo play to a whole new level and I can’t wait to try her out with a partner. All of the different settings let you choose the mood for any occasion, and they’re great to mess around with. The suction function is so nice and you can place it wherever you would like. Highly recommend! I’ll be recommending her to all of my friends.”

This global best-seller is the the most quintessential incognito bullet vibrator. With eight pleasure settings and whisper-quiet vibrations, it can go anywhere (and get you anywhere) you need to go. The lipstick case is purse-friendly, allowing you to be completely discreet with your sexual adventures.

Happy customer: “I fully enjoy the Mia 2! The simple design is unobtrusive, and comfortable for me. It has brought a new level of enjoyment when I brought my husband in to use it on me. The multiple modes and power levels helps when it comes into dialing in for the strongest orgasm I’ve ever had using a toy. My husband enjoys using it on me when we play together.”

Lipstick vibrators are great for anyone looking for a more intense experience, and the Zee vibrator from Dame does not disappoint. Its ergonomic design makes it comfortable and easy to hold, while the flexible flutter tip provides stimulation to targeted areas for a mind-blowing sensation. Many reviewers say they love using the Kip both solo and with their partners, and that the cute color options (lavender and lemon) are a bonus as well.

Happy customer: “OMG!!! Great durable material. The quality of this product is fantastic. Easy to clean and recharge. Finally used the 3rd speed. That feature was right on the money. I don’t travel without it!!!”

The best sex toys for couples don’t have to cost an arm and a leg. With more than 7,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, this Luna vibrator wand is not only a fan-favorite, it’s affordable too. With eight speeds and 20 patterns to choose from, you can have a different pleasure adventure every time you use it.

Happy customer: “I absolutely LOVE this product, (and so does my boyfriend for any men interested )… It can be super light or super intense. I love love love that the entire product is waterproof … It’s the perfect toy for internal and external use and has become our most used toy in the bed. The battery life is better than some of the more expensive toys on the market. We have enjoyed playing with the endless amount of settings multiple times a day for weeks and we are still finding new ways to play with this single toy. I recommend this to anyone and everyone reading this!”

The Pleasure Air technology on this g-spot vibrator offers a clitoral suction with 12 levels of intensity. The G-spot stimulator can be set to 10 different modes of vibration, so you can truly customize your experience for optimal pleasure.

Happy customer: “My husband bought me this as a birthday gift, initially I was really worried that I wouldn’t get on with it and for the price that was scary. It arrived in a lovely presentation box, the silicone was really soft and silky. We put it on charge as advised and waited. There are lots of settings to go through so I’d advise to try using them first before inserting because wow… They’re intense!!! Initially I couldn’t get above 1 on the clitoral suction part, it was just too much for me. But once I had the settings right it didn’t take long to orgasm, twice! This has (unsurprisingly) quickly turned into my favorite toy. It doesn’t make my clit too sensitive after use like other vibrators do so I can use it multiple times in a session. My husband also loves using it on my as a warm up! Highly recommend this for solo and partner play”

We’re loving this powerful little 3-speed Vibe personal massager by Maude. This waterproof device is soft to the touch, extremely easy to use, and totally discreet — it even comes in an unassuming natural canvas travel pouch, so you can take it with you anywhere. It charges with a USB and its battery lasts for up to 2.5 hours. It’s made from 100 percent premium FDA-grade silicone, and it’s free from phthalate and latex.

Happy customer: “I have always been apprehensive about buying a vibrator, which is why the vibe’s low key appearance interested me so much. After trying it out I can’t imagine my life without it. I never ever write reviews but this product is magical and everyone needs a vibe in their life!! Recommending the vibe to all my friends.”

Whether you’re a beginner in the world of the best sex toys for couples and want to stock your secret drawer, or experienced and looking for some new adventures, this is the 11-piece sex toy kit for you. It comes with cock rings, vibrators, jiggle balls, anal beads, a rabbit, and masturbator — all of the essentials from most every category of the best sex toys for couples.

Happy customer: “This kit is fantastic! My best purchase from love honey yet! Every toy is great, especially for the price. The rabbit in this kit is particularly good but everything in this is great. Its a well thought through kit with equal enjoyment for both partners, looks nice and each toy is well built. Gets the job done!”

You don’t have to spend a lot to get one of the best sex toys for couples, and if you’re on a budget, Adorime’s high-frequency vibrator is just the ticket. It comes with two interchangeable soft silicone heads and 10 toe-curling vibration modes. Users report that it really gets the job done, with one writing, “I’m honestly a bit speechless… There are so many vibration settings, and they are all insane! I recommend this toy 10,000 percent.”

Happy customer: “Such a powerful and unique toy. This thing produces some amazingly strong vibrations. Probably a top 3 toy I have purchased and one of the most affordable. Quality seems to be really good. Battery life is amazing. Just buy it!”

The We-Vibe Chorus can of course be used solo, but the real fun happens when you add a partner. The free We-Vibe app allows your partner to control the vibration from anywhere in the world, no matter how far apart you are. He or she can also squeeze the remote control to adjust the intensity of the vibration to match the grip. This smart vibrator may seem high-tech, but it’s super-helpful manual and website make quick start a breeze.

Happy customer: “The We-Vibe Chorus is an absolutely fantastic piece of sex tech! I enjoyed using this solo, and handing over complete control to my partner over the app while they were away. You or your partner can also pick different songs in ‘beat mode,’ which is a load of fun. Adding app-enabled toys has done wonders for our sex life … I highly recommend them for couples in long distance relationships, but really, they are a wonderful investment for everyone.”

Don’t be intimidated by this beauty. Cast in 316 grade stainless steel, this smooth, non-porous dildo is weighted to add pressure to all the right spots. It’s temperature responsive too, so you can warm it up in hot water or ice it down in the freezer, depending on your preferred sensation.

Happy customer: “This toy is a legend for a reason. I bought it on a quest to achieve an elusive G-spot orgasm and it didn’t disappoint. It is an expensive toy but well worth the money. It feels and looks luxurious. The steel is super smooth and beautiful to look at and the weight feels powerful in the hand. I confess I do enjoy just holding it and running my fingers over it. I have some friends who have purchased fakes for a cheaper price but this toy is really worth paying extra for, in addition to peace of mind that it is fully body safe.”

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A list of the best sex toys for couples just isn’t complete without a Fifty Shades reference, so fans of steamy fiction, this one’s for you! Sex and the City first made the Rabbit-style vibrator popular more than 20 years ago, and this special-edition Fifty Shades of Grey Rabbit Vibrator is endorsed by the author of the Fifty Shades series, E.L. James, herself. It delivers powerful vibration from two different motors, and there are 12 modes of speed and pattern, so you can customize the experience to your needs.

Happy customer: “I had never hit the big O until I got this in the mail last month. It has so many different settings between the two different motors that I believe pretty much every woman could find what works for them with this awesome toy! I will definitely be buying this again if I ever have any problems with my current one in a few years. So far it works perfectly and holds charge long enough to play with multiple times over a week and a half span. Charges quickly and isn’t too loud, which was one of my main concerns as I live with other people. Highly recommend! This was my first ever toy, but I also did my research and invested a bit more money in myself than usual but it definitely paid off…“

Don’t forget the lube! Before trying out any of the best sex toys for couples, it’s important to make sure that vaginal dryness doesn’t get in the way of your fun. Sliquid Organics Natural Lubricant is an all-natural, long-lasting solution to this pesky problem, which is more apt to crop up during perimenopause. This multi-functional, aloe-based lube simulates your own natural lubrication, and won’t irritate delicate areas or damage your favorite toys. Plus, it contains hibiscus, vitamin E, and green tea to naturally moisturize your skin!

Happy customer: “If you are going to use something to improve sexual pleasure, you want it to be good quality, highly effective, and enjoyable to use. Sliquid organics is all of those things. There is no chemical smell. It lasts longer than some other organic lubes and I highly recommend it. It also causes no irritation, and is great for those who are more sensitive.”